I've
honestly never been quite good at wrestling, I am much better at MMA (mixed
martial arts)." For Erin, the losses piled up, "My coaches usually
just put me in whatever weight they need me. For example my freshman year I
weighed 106 but they put me at 120 for districts. I got my ass handed to me a
lot because of this."
This is actually my favorite part about
writing this book/blog. Unfortunately, girls records their first year tend to
be filled with L's and not a lot of W's. Often times, they quit. The ones that
come back a second year are hopeful for better results, but many times, they
add a few W's, but they still lose a lot more than they win. Often times, they
quit. So when a girl comes back a third season for wrestling...even after all
the losses, its those type of girls I love to write about. And Erin is that
girl.
Despite the losses, she kept her enthusiasm
for the sport because Erin says, she doesn't have a choice. "I just have way
to much pride for myself. I beat myself
up a lot when I lose but quitting is not an option. I can't do that when I've
come so far. I know I'd regret it. I just keep trudging on cause every day is a
new opportunity to flourish."
Which brings us to her big match. I say
big, because it was. There were 11 teams competing and Erin was a little in
awe. "I was nervous and excited since it was the first official meet of
the season but there was so much competition! I don't think I've ever been to
an 11 way."
Erin lost the first match of the meet, but
true to her personality, she was not sulking. "I was just determined to
leave with more victories than losses, and I knew I had to step up my game in
order to do that. Go hard or go home." When Erin saw her opponent from
Plant High School, she was excited. "He seemed like a good opponent to
face. They're usually bigger despite being the same weight. But he looked
closer to my height lol. It wasn't that it was unintimidating, it was just
interesting to see someone looking more like they weigh what I weigh."
When I interview girls many of them have
told me the boy was either too cocky, or too nervous before the match. Some
even said they knew at the handshake to start the match that they would win,
because their opponent gives a limp handshake. But Erin said, this wasn't the
case here. "He shook hands firm and promptly like me; he carried himself
like he was prepared for a match."
He wasn't the only one prepared. Typically a coach tells their wrestlers what to do before a match, but this time, Erin told her coach.
"I told my coach I was going to go
straight for a head and arm as soon as the match starts." And that's
exactly what she did. "I attacked
first and hit the top of his head and looked like I was setting something up,
he opened his arms and I went for my head and arm hold and sat out to take him
down with me ."
The turning point of the match came at the
4 second mark. Yes, the 4 second mark. Erin tried to pull her opponent down,
and her opponent fought it. Erin says,
"He didn't come all the way down and still tried to get on my back."
If you stop the video at the four second
mark, things aren't looking good for Erin, as it appears, her opponent has
leverage and has her back. But looks can be deceiving, and Erin realized she
had the upper hand. "I knew I had enough of his arm and head to pull him
back over and finish it."
And that's exactly what she did. Erin
outmuscled her opponent and by the 5 second mark, the boys head hit the mat and
he was on his back after only six seconds.
There was no escaping, and Erin knew it. "I saw I had it, and I
knew I was going to finish it. I had to. I pulled and got my pin in and just
settled back onto him with my feet on the ground and squeezed till the ref
called it."
After the ref slapped the mat, Erin
couldn't help but slap it just a little bit harder. " I slapped the mat
cause I got excited lol and was proud of myself." While other wrestlers
try to be stoic after a victory, Erin couldn't hold off on her joy. "I was honestly just blatantly happy.
Seeing hard work pay off is such an amazing feeling and that was the quickest
pin I've ever gotten. We got up and got back to the center and the ref raised
my hand and I was just smiling all big. I told my opponent good match and shook
his coaches hand before going back to my team."
For Erin, she's hoping the win propels her
to bigger and better things. " It boosted my self esteem. That win started
me on a pretty good note ya know? I like knowing I'm getting somewhere.
And if you think 13 seconds is fast, Erin
says, she could do better. " If we rematched, I think we'd both try our
best to win, but rematches are always sort of stressful and enticing . My goal
would be to get a quicker pin then before."
As for her Instagram status..."When
your match is short enough to be put on insta"...that wasn't meant to demean
her opponent. "It was very cool to be able to get a match done so quick, I
thought it was funny that it fit on Instagram so that was mainly just me
entertaining myself lol." As for
her opponent, she wishes him luck going forward. "For me there isn't a
difference in pinning boys or girls, a pin is a pin and a pin is a win... So
I'm grateful regardless. Wrestling is a tough sport and I respect my opponents
because we give it our all."
The longest video you could put on
Instagram is 15 seconds. Maybe for the next story with Erin, she could put the
whole match on the website Vine, which has a match length of 7 seconds. After
all, as Erin says, " One thing I can't stand is not making progress."One
thing I can't stand is not making progress."
Hello, I am also a High School wrestler although I have been wrestling for little over a month now, I could relate to Erin's story a lot. I have been doing some research on blogs that talk about girl wrestling for some inspiration for my own blog. Infact I have come across this post and mentioned it in one of my posts here: http://thinkingwhilethinking.blogspot.com/2014/04/wrestling-family.html#comment-form. Erin's story really interested me because after a tough first season she kept to it. Not many people stick to it. Reading victory stories like this about the thirteen second pin makes me want to keep at this sport. With a passion like Erin's, anything is possible in the sport of wrestling.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing this story, and keep blogging! :)
this is a male-bashing forum, not a forum about girls wrestling. it's more like a cunt-fest.
DeleteThese posts are all very interesting, and well written, but a little sexist- the aim seems to be to pump up female wrestlers while degrading male ones, and the reason I say that is because I see no stories about these women competing against other women,and what little is mentioned about their defeats, by men or women, are heavily glossed over.
ReplyDeleteLosing to a woman in a predominately male sport must be a traumatic experience. It's a shame women don't just stick to wrestling women, because between this sort of favouritism and the fact that youtube seems to ban any material where a woman loses at almost anything, you have to wonder why sexual/domestic violence is as unbalanced as it is...
I was hoping for a fairer assessment of the wrestling scene in general, based on your blog title, that's all. But to each their own.
this is a male-bashing forum, not a forum about girls wrestling. it's more like a cunt-fest.
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Very old match, watched it before
ReplyDeletewhat good match and she is warrior
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